Buat Perdamaian dengan Ketidaksempurnaan: Petunjuk Kecil kebahagiaan

Buat Perdamaian dengan Ketidaksempurnaan
Kutipan buku: Petunjuk Kecil Kebahagiaan
ISBN: 9788178061375
Pengarang: Vikas Malkani
Penerbit: Unicorn Books (www.pustakmahal.com)

Buat Perdamaian dengan Ketidaksempurnaan

Saya masih mesti menemui seorang perfeksionis mutlak yang hidupnya diisi dengan perdamaian dalam. Keperluan untuk kesempurnaan dan hasrat untuk dalam tranquillity bertentangan dengan satu sama lain. Sewaktu-waktu kami dibubuhkan ke mempunyai sesuatu cara tertentu, lebih baik daripadanya sudah, kami ialah, hampir oleh ketajaman, terlibat dalam pertempuran kehilangan. Daripada menjadi isi dan berterima kasih untuk apa kami mempunyai, kami dipusatkan apa salah dengan sesuatu dan keperluan kami untuk memperbaikinya. Kalau kami dibidik dengan tepat apa salah, katanya secara tidak langsung bahwa kami dikecewakan, tak puas.

Entah diceritakan ke ourselvesā€”a berantakan lemari dinding, luka garukan di atas mobil, prestasi tidak sempurna, sedikit tempat pengurungan binatang kami akan suka ke loseā€”or kepada seseorang elseā€™s ā€˜imperfectionsā€™ā€”the jauh seseorang melihat, bertingkah laku baik, atau hidup oneā€™s lifeā€”the sangat perbuatan memusatkan pikiran pada tarikan ketidaksempurnaan kami jauh dari hasrat kami bahagia dan lemah-lembut. Strategi ini tidak punya apa-apa mengenai penghentian untuk melakukan anda sangat terbaik tetapi dengan terlalu lampiran dan dipusatkan apa salah dengan kehidupan. Tentang menyadari itu sedangkan ada selalu cara yang lebih baik untuk melakukan sesuatu, tidak menyatakan ini bahwa anda tidak bisa menikmati dan menghargai hal cara sudah.

Pemecahan di sini akan menangkap sendiri kalau anda memulai kebiasaan anda bersikeras bahwa hal sebaiknya lain daripada apa mereka ialah. Dengan lembut mengingatkan sendiri bahwa xHSindirect itu ialah, sekarang juga. Di ketiadaan pendapat anda, segalanya akan baik. Sewaktu anda mulai menghapuskan keperluan anda untuk kesempurnaan di semua bidang hidup anda, anda akan mulai menemukan kesempurnaan di hidup sendiri. Dan ya, itu diikat untuk membawa kebahagiaan ke dalam jiwa anda.

Perkenankan saya memberi anda sepuluh saran di bagaimana caranya untuk memelihara negara bagian kebahagiaan dan kegembiraan-penuh-ness sewaktu anda melayarkan kapal anda di lautan hidup ini. Teringat, kami tinggal di dua dunia secara bersamaan, yang dalam dan dunia luar. Untuk menjadi bergembira dan kebahagiaan pengalaman sebagai kualitas nyata di kehidupan sehari-hari kami perlu bahwa kami memelihara kesadaran kedua dunia ini pada setiap saat. Langkah di bawah dimaksudkan untuk menahan anda secara kukuh di atas garis edar kebebasan dan kebahagiaan setiap pentingnya setiap hari. Practise, dan ialah happyā€”all-cara, selalu!

Langkah 1: menertawakan Kekalahan kegagalan dan kekalahan dan kegagalan adalah hanya persepsi dari pandangan kecil. Mereka tidak mempunyai hidup nyata mereka sendiri kecuali apa anda memberi mereka. Ini berarti bahwa satu-satunya waktu anda mesti merasakan rasa sakit kekalahan atau kegagalan yang mana pun ialah jika anda memintanya, dengan menyelidiki ke dalam dibuat susah Sewaktu anda mulai menghapuskan keperluan anda untuk kesempurnaan di semua bidang hidup anda, anda akan mulai menemukan kesempurnaan di hidup sendiri pikiran sekitar suatu kehilangan yang lalu yang menyiksa. Tinggal di hadiah saat. Kesadaran suka tinggi luar biasa; berani mengikui!

Step 2: Start all over again, if necessary Any time you truly choose, you can start your life over, without permission from any higher authority. You can have just as many new beginnings as you are willing to leave behind all your old ideas and conditioning about the concepts of right and wrong. Life can be as new as you choose it to be.

Step 3: Stop looking outside of yourself After endlessly looking for it outside, realise that the answer is within you. Your life is only as complete as you areā€”no more, no less. Looking to your work, relationships or events for a feeling of self-completion is a self-defeating exercise. Being complete and whole is first an understanding, and then a state of being. It does not need a certain set of conditions to be perfectly manifested for its occurrence.

Step 4: Let go Trying to control every moment of your life, or anotherā€™s, causes more disharmony than any other process. Keep in mind that everything and every person must go through their own lives, based on their own awareness, at their own pace. Allow this to happen. Let something higher have its hand at directing your life, in shaping your destiny. Learn to let go!

Step 5: Donā€™t live for others There is no satisfying the fear that you may displease others. Allowing what others may feel about you to dictate how you feel about yourself is like believing that someone else can decide your identity for you. This choice gives away your power. The only real strength comes from knowing that you have your own likes and dislikes in your own life, and can never make everyone happy with everything that you are, or can do.

Step 6: Believe in action Wisdom turns into strength only if it is followed up with action. To learn how to swim, you must be prepared to get wet. Any weakness voluntarily faced and met is the same as greeting a greater strength. Wisdom lays the foundation, but it is action that finally changes life and the future.

Step 7: Be optimistic You always have two choices in every situationā€”either curse the darkness, or light a candle. Choose the more positive After endlessly looking for it outside, realise that the answer is within you. Your life is only as complete as you areā€”no more, no less attitude, always, regardless of the situation. It comes at the same expense as the negative thought or choice but with extremely different consequences. Why wait until you feel down before you think of looking up. You can always glimpse the higher, in every moment, but you have to remind yourself to look in the right direction. Remember that if you keep your face to the sunshine, you cannot see the shadows.

Step 8: Choose the heart over the head No matter how much you try, you canā€™t think yourself into happiness. You must actually feel happy. However, you can sink yourself to your lowest low with a chain of thoughts that start from a single dark one. Bright, positive emotions spring from the heart. Heavy feelings canā€™t exist without the presence of negative thoughts. This means that sad states are just a trick of the mind, and begin with our thoughts.

Step 9: Walk one step at a time Donā€™t be too concerned about how much there is to do, or how impossible some of the tasks seem. Just get one thing done at a time, again and again. Just do whatā€™s in your power, and brush aside all other concerns. The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. And the most beautiful tapestry begins and ends with one of ten thousand individual threads.

Step 10: Know that the time to act is always ā€˜nowā€™ You canā€™t change the mind of the person you are later. There is no later, itā€™s always now or never. The moment, ever present, ever powerful, is before you. And it has limitless potential. The time to accept responsibility for your happiness and freedom is now. The time to change your destiny is now. Accept that change is inevitable; it is part of our lifeā€™s journey. Confucius wisely said, ā€œThey must often change who would be constant in happiness or wisdom.ā€

Be ready to accommodate change in your life. Your personal growth depends on this. So does your state of mind. Do not delay. I have always maintained that there is really never a better time than the present. Remember that if you keep your face to the sunshine, you cannot see the shadows Accept imperfection You donā€™t have to wait for perfection to be happy