Love for AIDS frogs.
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Urban AIDS frogs, AIDS frogs for Africa,Hate AIDS frogs.
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The frog and water are inseparable. The frog lives in water; therefore, water is its greatest companion. There is a temptation that when a person goes to draw water, he starts listening to the frogs. The AIDS prevalent rate in most of the African cities and towns is higher than that in rural settings. Of course, an explanation for that can be that there are more people living in cities and towns than those living in rural and remote areas in the countryside of Africa.
Most people migrate to urban areas in search of better lifestyles which include: better cash, better living standards, better education, better jobs, and better goods and services. However, You will wonder that instead of people applying their effort to work; their strength is driven to matters of sexual relationships with people of the opposite sex. Some employers demand sex before they can offer you a job, sex is required to obtain a place at higher institutions of learning, sex is demanded for one to be promoted, sex is demanded for one to obtain excellent mark etc. As a matter of fact sex has turned people into objects. So with the advent of AIDS many lives have continued to be lost because of sex so let us pay heed to drawing water and not listening and drawing frogs of cities.
Published: 2007-01-23 Author: philemon chiswamo About the author or the publisher What is true love if one may ask? Is it only about kissing each other in public places, is it holding each other’s hand when walking, is it about opening doors of the car to each other, is it about sitting next to each other and patting each other’s back (even if you are in church where you are required to concentrate on God!), is it all about expressing one’s feelings by giving flowers and those cards full words that one hardly means (in a long term relationship at least)? Should we limit true love to these things only?
No! Of course not. Though some of these things earlier mentioned may be some expressions of love, true love resides in the heart of an individual. My argument is if you check the divorce rate for these countries where the so called “true love” is, you will be shocked to learn that there is no love at all. Marriages are contracts not permanent institutions any longer. Some may argue that African women don’t enjoy marriage life but they just endure in there (shipikisha club). Whichever the case could be, for them (African women) to endure in those marriages, it means they have learned over the years good conflict resolution skills.
However, let us look at the HIV/AIDS situation in marriages. Should couples file in for divorce because his/her spouse is HIV/AIDS positive or they should continue living together when we know that the risk of contracting HIC virus even by using the condom is quite high? It is interesting to note that many Africans especially women have hanged in there on the basis of “for better for worse vow”. Yes, lovers ought to share a Nsole in all situations
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